Dr. Jeff Wilusz
Another plug for Monday, August 25th, as we strongly encourage you to come to the HS Back to School Night, beginning at 5:00 p.m. in the theater. After some introductions, you’ll be free to meet your children's teachers for conversations about the course expectations and content. To help put a face with a name, please feel free to visit the ACS HS Staff Directory.
In line with tradition, I would like to share the first three keys of the Seven Keys to A Successful School Year, written by a wise old, old, old, old educator Mr. Keith Boniface, former HS Principal here at ACS.
Keep your eye on the learning, not the grade
This first and crucial key is surprisingly easy to overlook. Schools are about learning. We need to always remember that it is not an all-out quest for grades. It is not a competitive endeavor. We are not sorting kids for universities. It is not a mechanism for discovering weaknesses or keeping your child occupied. It is about learning.
An example of losing the focus on learning occurs often when a test or assignment comes home from school. It seems we tend to ask, “What did you get?” We talk about grades as if they were the goal. It is an honest mistake: grades are meant to be indicators of student learning. They are not the most important thing on the page.
There are things that students know and understand well, things that they are in the process of learning, and things they know nothing about – yet. Their approaches to learning will be different and our inquiries about what they’ve learned should focus on exactly that: what have they learned? The first time your child comes home with a graded paper or product remember to ask “What did you learn?” instead of “What did you get?”
Remember to take the long view
Whenever kids make mistakes – and they are certain to – it is difficult to remember that the mistake does not define them. Even if they continue to make the same mistake, it does not necessarily mean that that is who they are. They are in the process of “becoming,” and I would hate to think that we can categorize students as lazy, cheaters, or rude. I like to think that there are only moments when they act that way. Children get to be in the process, and we need to remember to take the long view on them. The mistake they may have just made is an opportunity to learn. My favorite question to ask a child in discipline situations is “So, what did you learn?” This, of course, is tied into the first key to a successful year.
Communicate
In real estate, they say the three most important words are location, location, location and in the school-home relationship, they must be communication, communication, communication. (Inevitably, someone tells me that the most important words in raising children are “medication, medication, medication,” but it is always said tongue-in-cheek.) We will do our best to keep our doors open and email boxes receptive and parents it is wise for you to take advantage. If you’re reading this, you’re probably one of those who regularly communicate, and I would encourage you to encourage other parents to do the same.
I know you’re clamoring for the final four, but it’s my only way to guarantee you come back to read my post next week!
Attendance
The following attendance message was communicated to students at Sunday’s assembly and via email. Please take a few minutes to go through it to also be aware of HS attendance expectations. As a reminder, we will be piloting a new system in the High School in which families will be reporting student absences within PowerSchool. Here is a video of how to report a student's absence.
MAP Testing - Our 9th and 10th grade students will be taking their MAP tests on Sunday, August 31st & Wednesday, September 3rd. We will be running an adjusted schedule for each of those days. Grade 11 & 12 students will be working with Ms. Kurdi on college-related activities.
Fall Parent Teacher Conferences
Teachers are looking forward to connecting with parents at our upcoming Fall Parent-Teacher Conferences. Based on feedback, we have determined that all conferences will be held in person on campus. Individual sections will be sharing more details as we inch closer to the conference dates.
October 16th
ES/MS/HS - In-person conferences from 8:00 am - 6:00 pm
Yearbook Photos - HS students are scheduled to take yearbook photos September 14-18th during Flex time. We will be sharing specific dates with students in their individual Cohorts.
Our school is a nominating institution for several university scholarships. Annually, we undertake a confidential internal process to select our nominees. The selection process is grounded in the stated selection criteria outlined by each award. The method of notification varies by scholarship: some nominees are publicly recognized during school assemblies, while others are contacted directly by the awarding university via email.
Social/Emotional Counseling Program
Beginning this week and going through mid-September, I will be meeting with the 9th and 10th grade cohort groups for an academic advising session on credits, transitions, and building resumes. The primary aims of this session are:
To normalize the challenges and excitement of the transition to high school.
Highlight common challenges and problem solve strategies for thriving.
Identify hopes and goals for high school, in general, and their current year in particular.
To initiate a credit tracking system to be used throughout HS to ensure they’re on track to meet ACS’s requirements and recommendations of post-secondary institutions.
To begin comprehensive tracking of their academic, athletic, artistic, musical and other extracurricular activities in a centralized space. These activities will then be used to build more formal resumes in grade 11 in preparation for post-secondary plans.
Additionally, I am doing one-on-one check-ins with 9th and 10th graders to see how the beginning of the year is going so far.
Finally, a reminder that the start of school is a huge transitional period for everyone in the family - parents and siblings included. The transition can be particularly challenging, and exciting, for families with children starting high school this year and/or starting at a new school. Now that you have a child in high school, or a child advancing in high school, key things to consider are balancing support and independence while also reinforcing balanced routines and social connections.
Supporting your teen’s transition to high school and/or the school year:
Establish/Reinforce Balanced Routines
Encourage regular sleep (teens need 8-10hrs of sleep per night)
Create consistent times for homework, meals, and downtime.
Balance screen time with rest and family time (eg. create tech-free times or locations in your house)
Why it matters: Good routines reduce stress and help teens manage increased workload
Support Academic Independence
Encourage your child to use a planner and/or a digital calendar
Ask guiding questions rather than solving problems for them. For example: “What’s your plan to finish this project on time?”
Encourage your child to advocate for themselves: role-play asking a teacher for help.
Why it matters: Independence and autonomy help teens build ownership of learning and confidence in their abilities.
Encourage Social Connections
Rather than asking “did you have a good day?”, try open-ended questions: “ Who did you sit with at lunch?” or “What surprised you about something you learned today?”
Support participation in extracurriculars - sports, clubs, arts, service, etc.
Normalize ups and downs in friendships. Friendships change a lot in high school. This can be really challenging but is also very normal.
Why it matters: Belonging and peer support are protective factors for mental health
Keep Communication Open
Check in regularly during “low stakes” times like car rides, walks or during joint activities. Avoid interrogating.
Listen more than giving advice and validate how they’re feeling.
Share stories about your own experiences in high school - both your struggles and successes
Why it matters: Though teens are pushing for independence, they still need to feel seen and understood through open, non-judgemental communication.
Support Emotional Wellness
Normalize stress and be a supportive presence: “It’s okay to feel nervous - it means you care, and, you are safe and we can problem-solve together”
Teach and model coping skills like good sleep, physical activity, deep breathing and journaling
Watch out for signs of overwhelm like isolation, increased irritability, changes in sleep or grades. Reach out to me if you notice any of these (ktouchtonleonard@acsamman.edu.jo)
Why it matters: these activities promote emotional regulation which supports both emotional and academic success.
Reinforce a Strengths-Based, Long-Term Perspective
For those with 9th graders, remind them that 9th grade is a transition year and adjustment takes time.
Encourage curiosity, trying new things, and normalize making mistakes and learning from them.
Acknowledge your teens strengths and emphasize growth in those areas, versus perfection
Why it mattress: a long-term, strengths-based perspective helps reduce pressure while still motivating them to challenge themselves.
Partner with the School
Stay informed: read the WGO, stay up-to-date on school events
Reach out to your child’s teachers and me if concerns arise
Model respect for teachers and school staff
Why it matters: Students feel more secure when they see their family and the school working together
Finally, with the nervousness and excitement of a new school year, some teens may be experiencing trouble falling asleep or staying asleep. Here is a list of podcasts that promote relaxation and calm. If it seems like they’ll be helpful, you can share the list with your child:
Untangle - authors, experts, and thought leaders interviewees about mindfulness and brain health.
Sleep With Me - stories that progressively more boring to help you fall asleep.
Nothing Much Happens - as the title suggests, this podcast has stories in which very little occurs to help you relax.
Ologies - deep dives into studies of specific species and animals.
Desert Island Discs - Interviews with actors and authors about what music they would bring to a desert island.
Boring Books for Bedtime - boring stories read quietly to help you fall asleep.
As always, don’t hesitate to contact me with any questions or concerns.
You’re encouraged to visit our College Counseling website, where some highlights are:
* Scholarships and Competitions
* In a Nutshell
Got more college questions? Ask Ms. Kurdi directly (rkurdi@acsamman.edu.jo), or schedule a meeting by emailing Ms. Ellen (ehindeleh@acsamman.edu.jo).
Our HS Counseling Team
Ms. Ruba Kurdi: College Counselor rkurdi@acsamman.edu.jo
Ms. Kate Touchton-Leonard ktouchtonleonard@acsamman.edu.jo
Ms. Ellen Hindeleh: Administrative Assistant ehindeleh@acsamman.edu.jo
Upcoming University Visits
Upcoming 2025-26 SAT Dates
SAT registration link
Note: ACS Amman is the testing center and will not appear in the drop-down list. You must enter our code, 54202, to select our school as a testing center.
ACS Activities Program: 2025–2026
Tryouts are on their way, and all the information you need is posted online. From schedules to updates, you’ll find everything in one place:
View the ACS Activities Website Here
Key Tryout Dates
The full Fall 2025 schedule (including tournament dates) is posted on the Activities Calendar.
Students in the HS have the privilege to access the Salti Fitness Center; access details below:
Open Monday–Thursday from 3:15–4:30 PM starting the week of August 24.
To use the space, students must complete an orientation and submit a signed waiver.
Returning students must also attend orientation and renew the waiver.
Orientation Dates:
Monday, August 25 · 3:15 PM – 4:30 PM
Wednesday, August 27 · 3:15 PM – 4:30 PM
Berlin Model United Nations (BERMUN)
Applications are now open on Power School for the Berlin Model United Nations (BERMUN) team. Here’s what you need to know:
Team size: Only 10 students will be selected.
Tryouts: Wednesday, August 27, from 3:10–4:30 PM in Room 415 (4th floor, Middle School—Ms. de la O’s room).
Application deadline: Sunday, August 24, by 10:00 AM.
Team announcement: September 1.
Trip cost: Approximately $2,200 USD.
BERMUN Fall Conference will take place in Berlin from November 19–22, 2025. Click here to visit the BERMUN website for full conference details, including schedule and location.
If BERMUN isn’t the right fit for you, don’t worry! In February, the MUN Club will attend another conference hosted by King’s Academy. No prior experience is needed to apply for that one.
Questions? Reach out to Ms. Hasan or Ms. de la O in the Middle School for help.
August 22 - Back to School Picnic
August 25 - HS Back to School Night; 5:00 - 6:30 PM
August 31 - HS Fall MAP Testing - Day 1
September 3 - HS Fall MAP Testing - Day 2
September 14-18 - Yearbook Pictures
October 16 - Parent-Teacher Conferences
The HS Weekly Update is sent out to students each weekend and updated daily. Feel free to bookmark the link so that you can see what is going on in the HS from the students' perspective.
Help Navigating PowerSchool - The How to View Grades from Parent Portal is a quick reference to help guide you through the intricacies of PowerSchool. As always, if you notice something “off” or have questions, please reach out to teachers after speaking through it with your child(ren) and they can help.
Please find the HS PS Tutorial recording to give you a quick guide to help you navigate PowerSchool and generate some fruitful conversations at home.